Stay Strong- Blog

Get ready everyone because this is going to be a heart felt blog.

I wanted to touch base on the things being said online… I always choose to ignore rumors and lies. The sad thing is people like to stir up trouble and sensationalize drama. I have and continued to be the most controversial woman in wrestling. It amazes and crack’s me up. The stories I hear of why I have heat and what I supposedly did. It’s funny but then again I really don’t like good people being lied to.

I understand that it’s how sites make a living and its easy to throw my name around when it comes to drama… maybe because I’m strong people don’t think of how it would effect me or maybe because I don’t say anything. Maybe people think, “it’s just a stupid rumor it’s not like it’s going to do anything.” It can alter people’s lives… maybe it’s just the person that I am but I couldn’t imagine ruining a person’s life is worth getting short term attention from people.

I am thankful I am strong. I am thankful I am healthy and of sound mind. I know the truth and so do my loved ones. It just my heart breaks for others. It’s just so sad to see people who want to hate on others to feel good about themselves, hate because they don’t like seeing others happy or because good people make them feel like a crappier one. I get why people talk when it comes to me, it’s part of being in the public eye but how about others out there who aren’t? They don’t deserve to go through people behaving like that.

I wish I could stop the hate that people express to each other. It’s a miserable way to live & see the world. They will never truly love and live life. For those who are being picked on, Stay Strong.

I’ve talked to many people online who have experienced this negativity and it always passes. Sure people start up again but the thing is, you all have been so sweet and kind. You are the funnest people to joke around with and talk to! YOU are the ones that are LIVING! YOU are the ones that have made TRUE FRIENDS!

Those hateful people are so boring. On twitter, their hate tweets are all the same thing…. complaining about the same stuff. It’s probably been a year and they are hating on the same people/thing. Do you envy that?? No Way!! They can tell their lies, be hateful or try to tear me down but I’m happy with my friends. I’m happy with my projects and my life. They can’t change that. Don’t give them the power to change your life or your views unless it’s for the better.

Some people are born patient, calm and understanding. Some of us have to work at it and that’s ok. It takes time. Just know you deserve to be happy. Don’t let haters ruin your fun and happiness. Just ignore them… or try. It all has to start somewhere.

To the people who don’t mean to be negative or simply Are… I don’t judge you. I just know that you do not know the facts or you got caught up in everything. It happens. Maybe you are so passionate about something and you don’t realize you are doing it. Just know it doesn’t matter. I’ve talked to people who hated on me and once they heard my story and got to know me we became friends. They ended up being cool people. We all deserve a fresh start. You will always be welcome to join us having fun. You should open yourself to possibilities of new friendships & experiences. YOU deserve happiness too.

Thanks for reading my blog! It was something that was on my mind that had to be said. Sending you all the love in the world!

The Most Dominant Diva on the Internet :p
Melina
#StayStrong